Monday, 18 August 2025

Life Lessons for Growth & Success

 #Life... Explore yourself on the highway of this wonderful journey called life and this life is very really beautiful when you don't care about the world. Expectations are the reason for all kinds of sadness in the life. Every day in our lives, you have a choice to choose between dreams and drama, choose wisely. The world wants to assign you a role in life. Reconstruct yourself as a powerful character. To be treated like a king, act like a king. Be the master of your own image instead of letting others define it for you.
#StandForYou… Accept the fact that nothing is certain and no law is fixed. The best way to protect yourself is to be as fluid and formless as water; never bet on stability or lasting order. Everything changes. Being comfortable is the worst thing you can do to yourself. If you want to achieve big things, you need to adapt to chaos. People will throw stones at you. Don't throw them back, collect and build an empire. Success begins when you step out from your comfort zone. The first step in the process of self-creation is self-consciousness, which involves being aware of yourself as an actor and taking control of your appearance and emotions.

#Dreams... If you are dreaming, dream big. It's very important to find out if you were born to catch a small fish or hunt down big sharks and whales. Those are very unfortunate people who keep themselves within fixed boundaries and don't know the purpose of life. Some people understand the goal early, while others need their entire life to understand their strength. Timing is very important. Colonel Sanders founded KFC at age 65, while Jack Ma, who couldn't get a job at KFC, founded Alibaba and retired at the age of 55. Ideas are the starting point for all fortunes, and they are the product of the imagination. 

#Opportunity…. Always looking for opportunities where you can use and explore your skills. If you are not getting opportunities, then create them for yourself.  Maturity is knowing that a job will not make you rich. Naukri karke koi Raees nahi banta, But Job experience will teach you how to build your own empire.  Invest your time wisely, don't be afraid to fail and just keep working hard. Only those who keep trying will succeed. Lack of determination is the most common reason for long-term failure. Take chances, embrace the Change. If you refuse to change with time, you'll become outdated. Nokia's refusal of Android, Yahoo's refusal of Google, and Kodak's refusal of digital cameras have left them out of the race. 

#Risk... Sometimes not taking risk is a bigger risk. If some situations just force you to level up then never look back and take that risk. Be loyal to your future, not your past. Learn to trust yourself. A positive mind is more fertile to faith, and faith is the starting point for all success. If you fall in love with your own game, then you will have no competitors. Without mind power, you cannot put your plans into action.

#Desire... You should have that Bhook to become successful. The starting point of all achievement is Desire. Persistence is built upon the strength of will. When desire is combined with willpower no one can stop you from reaching your goals. Keep this constantly in mind. Success is to define a goal and to put all of your energy, power, and effort into achieving it. Your desire may take many years to achieve success, but if you continue to hold onto it, you will eventually achieve what you want. The path to success often involves long hours, high stakes, and personal sacrifices, which can lead to feelings of isolation.

#Decisions... Lack of decision is one of the leading causes for failure. The most successful people make decisions quickly and definitely. Those who make decisions quickly know what they want and how to get it. To decide requires courage. It’s only the bold who go on to achieve great fortunes. Win through your actions, never through argument. When you argue with someone, even if they seem to agree with you, you can never be certain they really do. Play a sucker to catch a sucker, seem dumber than your mark. 

#BeDelegate... As a leader, it's not your job to do everything by yourself. Akele aadmi kuch nahi ukhaad sakta. The process is more important than the results. And if you take care of the process, you will get the results. You can become a master of your field once you understand how to coordinate the knowledge and effort of two or more people working towards a specific purpose. Everyone has a weakness, a gap in the castle wall. That weakness is usually an insecurity, an uncontrollable emotion or need. Always look for passions and obsessions that cannot be controlled. What people cannot control, you can control for them.

#Money... Paisa is nothing but the freedom to do what you want and when you want. While being able to visualize yourself as rich may seem challenging at first, it’s only those individuals who are “money conscious” that become successful. In order to be financially conscious, one must imagine themselves in possession of great wealth before achieving it. A deep desire for money is necessary for you to become rich. One skill that you should have is networking and public relations in such a way that people are ready to invest in you rather than your company. 

#BeThankful... You will never forget those who took a chance on you when others rejected you. You should have a strong belief that the person who gave you an opportunity or platform is nothing but a divine gift sent by God to propel you forward in your life. Always be thankful for those people, even if they make you feel bad in the future. It doesn't matter how dirty others play; karma has a big bite. Always move with a genuine heart and pure intentions. 

#YouAreYourMaster... The sad reality is, the world doesn't fucking care about your hard work, devotion, honesty, or loyalty unless you have something to bring on the table that makes a difference. No matter how humble and decent you are, if you are no longer useful to them, you will be sent out of the game. If you want to be part of the game, your usability and needs are your insurance. When you need help from someone in a position of power, don't talk about your needs or something you did for them in the past. Instead, appeal to their self-interest. They will be glad to help if they will get something important to them in return.

#FriendsAndEnemies... Not loyalty, but opportunity works in good times. Loyalty is always tested and needed in bad times. If you are the smartest person in the room you are in the wrong room. So be surrounded by people who are smarter than you. Don't blindly trust people. You should be extremely careful when choosing the right people. Never put too much trust in friends, learn how to use enemies. In fact, you have more to fear from friends than from enemies. Avoid those who are unhappy or unlucky. People loves to be with power. Become so powerful that your competitors become your allies.

#SpeakLess... Control your mind, money, mouth and mood. Always say less than necessary. People who cannot control their words show that they cannot control themselves, and are unworthy of respect. But the human tongue is a beast that few can master. Once the words are out, you cannot take them back. Keep them under control. Be particularly careful with sarcasm: The momentary satisfaction you gain with your sarcastic words will be outweighed by the price you pay.

#WorkplaceFacts... You won't be vice president of a company with a car and phone available until you've managed to buy your own car and phone. Before giving you anything, the world determines if you truly deserve it. Your boss is not your friend. Regardless of how close you are, learn to set professional boundaries. There will always be that exceptional colleague who gets the job done, gets recognition, and praises. Don't let that feeling of jealousy get in. Observe what that person is doing differently and how they do it.

Thanking You… ✌🏻

Tuesday, 18 December 2018

Lighting in Darkness

Life is best when there is minimum pain and maximum gain. Life is all about having emotions because if there are no emotions there will be no excitement in the life and we all are here to multiply our excitement. But misplaced emotions only harms the growth. Why this so, because Emotion should became our strength not our weakness... 

A child who is afraid of dark has made fear of darkness assumed irrational proportional it is a life and therefore he refuses to enter into a dark, even when going into dark is an essential requirement for his growth. 
If there is dark at one side of tunnel and at another side there is a presence of light. So only when you pass the dark tunnel you will reach to light. 
This Child never see the light, because he is so unconscious & afraid of dark and that fear stops his mind to put steps towards light. It is an example of misplace emotion...
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Now we can apply this logic in our Indian Politics. Our governance is big issue in India, because any party who has in power, they never see the light, they are so afraid of dark, means losing election. Seeing the light means taking progressive steps even when they know they will not won the next election. People are not a blind in this country if you take some progressive step, people will appreciate it. But any party which is in the power don't want to hurt their vote bank... 
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If this vote bank culture will going on, we will never see a light, we will continue to be afraid of dark and our country will never grow... 

Monday, 5 November 2018

Motivation




Live your life today as most people won't, so you can live your rest of life as most people can't... If you want to do something, its only you who know what you want to do.. And nobody owes it to you, not a single person... Doubts kills more dreams than failure ever will... So, once you trust something that has worked in the past for many, trust it and follow it. Finally what matters is you and only you... The more you sweat in peace the less you bleed in war...
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Normally when things becomes easier, people becomes easy... When everything seems to be going against you, remember the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it... Biggest truth of life which anybody will suggest you & which i have realized is, People will never start to accept you or respect you and you can't create your own space in society, unless you don't have something different from others... Success gives you authority to convenience people... 

Meanwhile, keep the professionalism & the perfection in your work... Dedication & patience should be must in your nature if you want to fly on high... If you know 2% about something, then the next best shouldn't know even 1%... Be a financially independent... Money can not buy a happiness but money can bye bye sadness... Love is rooted in respect... To take a respect from society, family, friends you should be financially, emotionally independent... You can not possible love a person whom you don't respect... So, to be interesting, you have to be interested...

Yet, one thing which is required from you is that apart from your hard work, be very honest and gentle in nature... Don't think bad of others... Don't be jealous or don't curse anyone... Let people speak against you, let people curse you, let people laugh at you and let people have negative opinion of you, ultimately what will matter is your end result...

If a person is good at heart and conscience and hardworking then on this earth all forces would combine to provide him or her all the success... Just be patient and calm... Don't panic...i personally believes that actions speaks more than words.. So, keep moving toward your goal and have selfconfidence...

Thanking You 🙏
Bunny❤️

Sunday, 22 April 2018

Alauddin Khalji - The Smart, Strong, Able and Brilliant administrator

Alauddin Khalji (1296- 1316) was a very smart, strong and able administrator who translate his thoughts into actions and meet his ambitious targets in very less amount of time.

He ruled Delhi Sultanate for 20 years. He was most powerful ruler ruled the Delhi Sultanate. He was the second ruler of the Khalji dynasty. He was the first Muslim ruler who established his empire in South India. He was very ambitious person who wanted to mark his name in History.



Alauddin Khilji saved India from a fate much worse than even his own oppressive rule that of the murderous Mongols, who tried to invade the Indian subcontinent six times during his reign as the sultan of Delhi, and failed miserably. Alauddin Khilji, for all his faults, actually saved the culture of the Indian subcontinent of that time which included Hindu, Muslim, Buddhist, and Jain subcultures from enormous destruction of Mongols.

So we should thanks to his brilliance as a general, the quality, discipline, and bravery of his army and its commanders, and their superior military tactics.

Khilji is known for ground breaking reforms like Military reforms, His expansionary policy, Market control policy, turn coat policy & culture development. He made cultural contribution to India like Lai Minar, Jammat Khana Mosque, Siri Fort, Ala-e-darwaza.He had outstanding Military & stable Economy due to that during this era no single famine came in his empire.

In his Exapansion policy he made some attacks to expand his empire.
1299: Attack on Gujarat
1301: Attack on Ranthambore Fort
1303: Attack on Chittore Fort   (till date no mention of Padmavati in History)

Movie Padmaavat which is based on Novel "Padmavati " written in 1540 by Malik Muhammad Jayasi (1477- 1542) after 224 year of the death of Alauddin Khilji (1250-1316) and he was added so many imaginary thoughts to make it more fabulous. So all the things which is shown in Padmaavat Movie is not factual and it is false/misguided information. Also many modern historians including Gauri Shankar Ojha,a prominent Rajasthani historian,rejected this theory.

Actually, in 1303 Alauddin had attacked on Chittore fort to conquer the fort not for Rani Padmavati . During this time he heard about the beuti of Rani Padmavati, so after defeated Raja Ratan Singh he asked to see Rani Padmavati and he had just seen her in the Mirror. (this data is given many historicans).

This suggest that, Historical validity of any source written after almost 224 year of incident should not allow to believe on its purity.

Sunday, 25 March 2018

Be the change you wish to see in the world



When you try to give your best of best for your goals, yet there is always a chance of failure... So i think it's important that you must like whatever you are doing, because it will gives you energy to bounce back in the case of failure... But when works on the things you really don't like from heart, there a big chance which would lead you to leave that work in the case of single failure... 
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Irony is, Log Kya Kahenge has killed more dreams than anything else... People, who judge you & tell you that you are wrong or mad, don't panic, you are not here to live their characters... you are here to tell your own story, to live as you want, to act as you wish... Stay away from negative people around you, those are real life virus and bacteria's for you... 
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Don't let your fears become boxes that enclose you, open them out, feel them, and turn them into greatest courage you are capable of, i promise you.. nothing will wrong...but if you live by your fears, everything that can possible wrong, will go definitely wrong... The degree to which you are focused in good direction that will turn you into succeess...
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People around you will often demotivate you or demoralize in your struggling phase & you will be let down by it ... They will either doubt on your efficiency or will not accept your supremacy... But it's the end result which will show who is efficient and supreme... Work in silence & let success make noise for you ....
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Come out from your Comfort zone. An aeroplane at land and ship at coast, both at there safe zone are useless. But an aeroplane gets a value when it cuts the wind & fly in sky and Ship gets a value when it cuts the ocean currents & travels in deep ocean. So if you are finding Safe or Comfort zone for you then no one will care you... Believe in yourself, take a opportunity to fight against your goal, then whole world will start to respect you. Don't excuse. Locks are never manufactured without a key. 
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Once you believe, there is something in your life that you really really likes, focus more on that  without outcome of failure and make it your strong point.  Once you trust something that has worked in the past for many, trust it and follow it... Be focused with vision, craft and sensitivity... Follow  your dreams & always keep your soul alive... Be the change you wish to see in the world...

Thursday, 1 March 2018

THE WAY OF LIFE

Living without expectation makes every moment larger than life. God has created everyone with some sort of unique qualities... So, don't compare yourself with others, if you do, you are insulting yourself... If a person is good at heart and conscience and hard working then on this earth, all the forces would combine to provide him/her what they actaully desired. Just be patient & calm..
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Sometimes, people start to judge you without knowing your efficiency & knowledge... Their words will hurt to you, they’ll get to you internally and make you think about yourself in ways you know you shouldn’t. So that time, silence is the best answer of all questions and smile is the best reaction in all the situations. Best way to show your maturity is how you ignore the stupid peoples.
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When your time is GOOD, your mistakes are taken as Jokes.. BUT When your time is BAD even your jokes are noticed as a Mistakes. And at this point you realises that, success come from experience and experience come from bad experiences... When things goes against your heart, its hard to accepts it... But we should understand that, life is a compromise between your feelings and reality at every stage you have to quit your feelings and accept the reality! 
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Follow your dreams & always keep your soul alive...motivate yourself for the activities which ll inspire you... Develop a ability to live with your own authentic truth, stand for what you believe in, and speak even when you told to be silent. This is YOUR life and you only get one. Live your best and most joyous life. give to spirit and spirit gives back... explore & express yourself.. 
And this is a way i am living my best life till the next life.
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I hope at the end of each day, you find something to be proud of yourself for, no matter how big or small.
So grow grow and grow..✌

-Mayur Dhokchaule

Wednesday, 21 February 2018

My Interview on Caste System & Muslim Community in India by Natalia Zajaczkowska, Student of University of Lodz, Poland


Natalia Zajaczkowska, student of University of Lodz, Poland graduated in Political Science & International Relations. She has been researching on Caste System & Muslim Community in India under Faculty of International and Political Studies, University of Lodz, Poland. She has been publishing interview soon in her Research Papers. In the below section, i have posted same interview.

Click here to read interview:- https://goo.gl/YXs562