THE WAY OF LIFE

Living without expectation makes every moment larger than life. God has created everyone with some sort of unique qualities... So, don't compare yourself with others, if you do, you are insulting yourself... If a person is good at heart and conscience and hard working then on this earth, all the forces would combine to provide him/her what they actaully desired. Just be patient & calm..

Sometimes, people start to judge you without knowing your efficiency & knowledge... Their words will hurt to you, they’ll get to you internally and make you think about yourself in ways you know you shouldn’t. So that time, silence is the best answer of all questions and smile is the best reaction in all the situations. Best way to show your maturity is how you ignore the stupid peoples.
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When your time is GOOD, your mistakes are taken as Jokes.. BUT When your time is BAD even your jokes are noticed as a Mistakes. And at this point you realises that, success come from experience and experience come from bad experiences... When things goes against your heart, its hard to accepts it... But we should understand that, life is a compromise between your feelings and reality at every stage you have to quit your feelings and accept the reality! 
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Follow your dreams & always keep your soul alive...motivate yourself for the activities which ll inspire you... Develop a ability to live with your own authentic truth, stand for what you believe in, and speak even when you told to be silent. This is YOUR life and you only get one. Live your best and most joyous life. give to spirit and spirit gives back... explore & express yourself.. 
And this is a way i am living my best life till the next life.
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I hope at the end of each day, you find something to be proud of yourself for, no matter how big or small.
So grow grow and grow..✌

-Mayur Dhokchaule

My Interview on Caste System & Muslim Community in India by Natalia Zajaczkowska, Student of University of Lodz, Poland

Natalia Zajaczkowska, student of University of Lodz, Poland graduated in Political Science & International Relations. She has been researching on Caste System & Muslim Community in India under Faculty of International and Political Studies, University of Lodz, Poland. She has been publishing interview soon in her Research Papers. In the below section, i have posted same interview.

Click here to read interview:- https://goo.gl/YXs562

What is mean by Ethics?

Ethics 
Ethics is defined as set of standard/rules/regulation/moral principles that guides human behaviour and his actions. 
It helps an individual to distinguish his right and wrong deeds in order to attain happiness in life.
The word ethics is derived from Greek word ethos meaning customs, traditions, habit etc.

Source of ethics:-
Family: They are the first institution that teaches us to respect others.
Society: Putting a set of standards that guides our action.
Inner belief/ Conscience: Helps us in distinguishing our good or bad deeds.
Friends: Habit of sharing, feeling of brotherhood.
Working Environment: Responsibility, Management, Dealing with uncertainties, Discipline etc.

Use of ethics:-
It helps in providing a moral map which helps one to reach to an ultimate solution in the conflicting situations. 
By following ethical principles, one can attain peace and stability in his life. 
It helps individual to distinguish what is right & wrong and arouses one's conscience that guides his/her actions.
Strengthens Individual Tolerance power, disciplinary approach, arouse feeling of empathy, compassion etc.

Relationship between ethics and human actions 
Humans, being rational, derive their thought and idea for a solution through deliberate thinking. Ethics help in building thoughts which in turn reaps into action.
There is deep correlation and interdependence in ethics and human actions. Ethical philosophers have described it as: – 

Consequentialism – 
If the consequences of human action are good then the action is said to be ethical otherwise not. For example, giving money or food to beggar
Act based – 
Many argue that human action in itself is ethical irrespective of consequences. For example, speaking the truth. One should always speak irrespective of consequences.
Character based – 
Ethics help in building character and if the character or virtue of a person is good then his actions will also be ethical.eg shrvankumar ,lord ram of ramayana
knowledge based ~ 
human act acc to knowledge of what is wrong and what is right for actions eg.child throwing phone in water is not unetical because he is unknown of that consequences
Intention or motive – 
Human actions might result into bad consequences but if it is done with good intentions then the action is said to be ethical without consequences. eg giving polio vaccine but sometime it may cause polio.



There is strong relation between ethics and human action as human is a social being and their actions will have impact on others. One should always think all ethical angles before taking final action.

Caste System in India.

              Before making any conclusion on the caste system, first we should have a deep understanding of caste system. What is a Caste System? Caste system is an undemocratic way of discriminating among people. In India it refers to the ancient division of society into different groups based on their occupation. Later this transformed into division based on the birth of individual. Caste was voluntarily declared system by our own forefather - A self-declared system. Indian constitution allows Democratic Caste System.

              Origin of Democratic Caste System in India started after the Independence. After the independence there were so many weaker sections, which were economically & socially poor, so to mainstreaming them with other upper caste section, Government of India came with democratic caste system. It differentiated people in various castes Like Schedule Caste, Schedule Tribe, Other Backward Classes. This is the reason behind the origin of democratic caste system.

              Caste System brings some Positive points & advantage to society in India. Caste acted as a trade union and protected its members from the exploitation. It Promote political stability & promote economic development. It Provide social security and social recognition to individuals. Like choice in marriage, health insurance benefits. It handed over knowledge and skills of hereditary occupation of a caste from one generation to another.

             Despite there are many negative aspects of Caste System in India. Caste system is bad because - it divides people from birth, it never unites. Caste system promotes the monopoly of upper caste & creates hatred against upper caste in the mind of lower caste, which ultimately divides society all together.  Caste system discriminate in economic & educational opportunities, it favor lower castes and made injustice with people of uppers caste having merits. Political influence of cast system in National Elections is harm for democracy. Marriages in the same caste and relations increase the chances of genetic disorders. In India there are some castes with very less people left in their community. So, in those cases, marriages among first/second cousins are very common. Thus making more prone to genetic disorders

As per my knowledge, solution for Caste System is, replacing the existing system with income based system.

                In India Reservation on the basis of caste is often very controversial topic. The question is whether Reservation on the basis of caste right or wrong?. In my opinion reservation on the basis of caste or religion is totally a false thing because there are too many peoples from the lower caste who are living a well luxury life and many peoples from the upper caste who are living in the very drastic condition below the poverty line.

Reservation does not allow equal chance as it is based on caste rather than merit. Reservation should be done on the basis of current situation and not on what has happened in the past. Reservation on the basis of caste is not appropriate in the current world because it is the world of Globalization where opportunities are given on the basis of skills and not on the basis of caste

                Solution for Reservation by Caste System is, Reservation should be on the basis of economic wealth rather than Caste System.

Post by - Mayur Dhokchaule

Life is ... ?

Every human being has some sort of genius, but they destroy it by trying to be like someone else... YOU should have courage to be who you are....because every single person deserves to be exactly who they are, and be accepted for that... So, always remember to nurture, empower & thoroughly cherish your inner child... If you work hard and meet your responsibilities, you can get ahead..., no matter where you come from, what you look like, or who you love...

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Never take life seriously, Nobady gets alive anyways... So spend time with people you love. Talk to strangers for hours.... If a place is calling you, travel to it if possible... Consider every sunset a masterpiece... Smile because your mouth has the ability to... Break your habits because you're capable... We are here for a short amount of time and what matters after that is what we lived for, so I hope you are making every moment count... For yourself... Stop and smell every single rose...

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Well, its sad to see people discouraging others on their path, sad to see the lack of support and compassion humans have for one another... When someone walks out of your life when you really need he/she, let them go. They are just making more room for someone better to walk in!!!  The best way to show your Maturity is, how you ignore stupid peoples... 

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Thank God for the small things... Don't be ashamed of your goals, and make sure the one your reaching for is what your heart and soul, not mind desires... Love yourself, Always Forgive, Harm no One, Do Good, Be Positives....these are some significant MANTRAS for good life... so grow grow grow... Be patient! Your days are not far...

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I was a little jumbly with my words but it's from the heart. Hope I get the chance to speak on this more often, and help in any way I can...

Lott's of love....

Bunny...

My First Failure....

Its very difficult to suffer this painful time, when you miss your goals, for which you were struggling for very long with lots of sacrifices, hardwork & dedication. At this point tears are words the heart can't say. It's hard to accept your failure & suddenly you realizes, the most difficult struggles are the ones you fight with yourself. You are only your competition. But Success comes, when you simply refuse to give up with goals so strong that obstacles, failure and loss only act as Motivation...

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Let belives, No matter how hard life gets, dont lose hope. Hope is seeing light in spite of being surrounded by darkness. If you give up at the first sign of struggle, you are not ready to be successful. You must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope. Stay focused on whatever you to do and don't doubt yourself. Focus on the outcome not the obstacle. When a winner loses, He always comes back to be a better winner...

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When god put you in hard times, don’t loose yourselves. If you see history of many successful persons, you will found one common thing in all of them is PAIN, jab tak takleef na hona jindgi me, tab tak koi aadmi bada nahi banta. So in hard times instead saying why me always say try me…

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You may go through very difficult time, where you feel like a failure but remeber one thing, struggle & hard times are the most inspirational thing in the world. Nothing get waste, sometimes you win, sometimes you learn. Our quest is not about destination it's always about relishing the journey.

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No matter how many times you fails in your life, what matter is how many times stand up agains & struggle for your goal.

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Never give up, great things take time. Sharing my favorite line,

पसीने की शाई से जो लिखते हैं अपने इरादों को,उनके मुक्कदर के सफ़ेद पन्ने कभी कोरे नहीं होते...

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How Meditation can change your life...

Love, blessings and greetings for this auspicious occasion... 

Happy Guru Purnima... :) ;) 

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On the occasion of this Guru Purnima, i would like to share little story of mine... :)

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Last Nov 2016 to Jun 2017 i was staying in one Gurukul located in Maharashtra along with some ascetic people... spiritual world all around... :)
Person with i have seated in above picture is the spiritual guru who himself teaches the lessons of meditation to the peoples of India & foreigner as well. I am one of from those privileged people... ;)
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Despite being an atheist, for last 7 month i have been attending daily one hour session of meditation & first time in my life, i felt such inside satisfaction. Please don't relate the devotionalism & meditation on single line. This is not zhasegiri or bundlebaazi. Meditation is totally scientifically proved theory.. :D
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Meanwhile, what i have realized from my experience is.., 
Meditation is an exercise that trains your mind to regulate itself, it's the ability to focus on one thing continuously without break, If practiced properly & diligently, it's a consistent re-connection with your true inner self.
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#Meditation gave me power to control over my mind. This is reason i had gave up on social media for last 8 month, where i was addicted more.
Meditation gave me energy to focus on my dedicated work weather it is study, exercise or morning wake up, where i was facing lack of consistency earlier. Matlab almost life style has been changed :D
You can control the sexual desire, negativity & depression using Meditation.
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Last week i went back to New Delhi, India, so could not met Babaji on Guru Purnima. Writing this post to represent my apology.
I am thankfull to Babaji for teaching this wonderful & benifial thing i ever have learn before. :)
So this post is dedicated to you babaji... :)
Atma Malik !!! Missing the Gurukul :)
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ℬunny 😍 <3